I always ask myself this question. :)
What is in my mind? Basically, woman and man want the same things.Whatever the things in my mind - LOVE IS PRECIOUS!
Sometimes we have to turn ourselves to be a romantic person, sensual creature.
We should know; I think - What is the thing drives the women emotions to go to an exact men.How women decide to have a date with men?
And, I notice something, something that all of us know and want, something that happens everyday, everywhere between a woman and a man. What women want....
1. A man , who can makes her feels secure physically and emotionally.
2. A man, who can makes her feels good about herself - if you can make her feel good about herself, I think she would be willing to be around you all the times.
3. A man, who can makes her feels special - buy her flowers, buy her chocolates, YES! to make woman feels special is a hard job and takes much, much efforts. But it worth!
4. A man, who knows how to challenge her - A guy who treats her likes a princess, very agreeable, very attentive. A guy who wasn't afraid to tell her that she is wrong. A guy who doesn't give her whatever she wants, everything she wants. In short, a guy who knows how to handle a woman gently.
5. A man who knows how to appreciate them - This tips included the tips at para 2 & 3 above. I think this one is easy but so often overlooked by a man. As a man, we should let her know that she is a number one (numero uno) in our life, by complementing and reassuring her. It is important!
So, what does a woman want from a man? I think, the one who knows how to appreciate her and not afraid to tell her so.
6. A man, who has dreams and working to make them become reality.
7. A man, who knows how to manage money wisely. And knows how to be both frugal and generous.
8. A man, who knows what make them happy or sad and aware of what they want and understand what motivates their action or inaction.
9. A man, who can memorize and remember the important date, event ,jewelry, dinner and conversation between both of you. They (women) remember the first date, the first flower, the first hug and the first kiss, they romanticize everything.
10. A man, who can 'talk'. - What they really want from a man is not TALK at all, but LISTEN. Be a good listener to them. For record, don't try to talk to her out of her opinion ( you can do it but you should try to find an exact situation), don't try to offer an advice, don't make light her problem or tell her to quit worrying. Just listen and that's all you have to do.
Could anyone add something here based on the real experience or from the things happened around you?
"Perhaps the feelings that we experience when
we are in love represent a normal state.
Being in love shows a person who he/she should be."
we are in love represent a normal state.
Being in love shows a person who he/she should be."