Empty Room vs. My Puzzle

I dunno what to do, flu makes me feels uncomfortable, with 'hiung yang berair, and 'tak henti henti bersin'. Huh! I really hate it!!

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- AN EMPTY ROOM -

where we learn to live without love...

I will call my 'compartment' here as 'An Empty Room'.

Here is about 'my puzzle' called -

'A Think To Share With'

It is like a set of puzzle for me, I try to collect all the things inside and outside in order to make ' a bigger picture' where I can look and find out neu things around me. The solution in order to make ' a bigger picture' is to combine your personal opinion, your personal view, your real experience based on what I pasted or wrote here. The solution that fit together like pieces of puzzle and the one piece which is the final piece in the puzzle that completing the picture. The picture of US, the picture of YOU,ME & THEY!

Sometimes, during collecting every single piece of the puzzle, it gives me the questions with no answer, the conundrum. Sometimes it is juz an outcry....an outcry with no repartee about the subject, even it is hard for us to accept it and of cause it is only a piece of incomplete puzzle of our long trip.

Mebbe we made mistakes, but everybody made mistakes too. In life, the most important thing is not how good we are, but how good we want to be, to our mum & dad, our brothers, our loved one, our friends, our neighbours and to everybody.

We should know, who is the most important person in our life, of coz ourselves, of coz you; yourself. We are responsible for what we choose to think and to do. If it becomes a breakthrough, it still our responsibility and if it becomes a failure, of coz it is our responsibility too.

For me; myself, I always put in my mind that confidence does not come out of nowhere. But it is a result of something which take a lot of time ..... hours and days and weeks and years of constant work and dedication. That's why I should learn from your experiences and think about it, about everything. That how my 'puzzle' works here!

John Raiston once said; "Success comes in CANS, not CANNOTS."

But, sometimes success is not everything in life, it is just a thing. There are so many things we have to look and pay more attention.

As Uthman bin Affan said long long time ago; "You will never feel sad if you know what you are looking for."

I think it is right, what about you ?

In the middle of nowhere, as a complimentary I would like to say 'thank you very much' for those person who have contributed and spent time to write sumtin in 'A Think To Share With'. I hope my trip to fit all the pieces of puzzle in my life will success with your assistance. In life, in doing everything, the most important than victory is effort. At the center of effort is courage. And, of coz our inspiration!

What is The Best Position for Making Love?

Note: This article is intended for adults. By continuing to read it you are certifying that you are over the age of 18.

I've read an interesting article which I decided to share with everybody. Any comments or personal opinion are welcome.

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Sex Positions

Add a Bit of Spice!

Here is the explanation about one of the position which is called as:

Missionary G-Spot

Difficulty: Moderate

Accessories: None

If his shoulders or back are getting tired in the Missionary Position , she brings her legs up over his shoulders as illustrated and he brings his knees together and lifts her hips.

This puts most of the weight of her hips on his thighs and transfers his weight off of his shoulders.

Even more important, it brings her G-Spot into easy reach for him and will provide some of the deepest penetration for both of you.

FOR HIM: If you like the feel of complete contact with her backside, you will really enjoy this position. Her bottom is pressed against your thighs, her thighs are running up your chest and your head is pressed between her calves!

If she hooks her legs slightly over your shoulders, you will not have to do any lifting and you can thrust away into her G-spot and drive her wild!

FOR HER: You will love this position because it targets both your G-Spot and your A-Spot better than almost any other position.

There is nowhere to go and you will just have to lie there and enjoy the sensations. If you tighten your thighs as he thrusts, you can keep her clitoris happy as well!

The fact that you are curled up will also help you climax!

Both: Like the Doggy series of positions, this one can feel fairly primitive. He has her pinned on the bed with her legs captured between his shoulders and all she can do is flex her thighs a bit.

It is not as intimate as the other Missionary positions, because he cannot lean down and kiss her. However, being able to watch her face as he brings her to new heights can be a great turn-on for both of you!

And,I choose this one too and expect to have a comment about it,

Standing Wall Doggy

Difficulty: Moderate

Accessories: Wall or Immovable Object

This is a sex position that can be used as a "quickie" position or you can take your time. She faces a wall or immovable object, backs up and bends at the hips. She needs to arch her back to help him enter. He straddles her legs and enters from behind.

FOR HIM: Like nearly all Doggy positions, there are many wonderful things to enjoy - among the greatest is the view of her beautiful body! Move her legs outside of yours for deep penetration. Move them inside yours as in the illustration to tighten her around you. She should like the intimate feeling as well. Kiss her back. Run your fingers up and down her spine.

Grasp her hips or shoulders and carefully pull her down onto you for deeper penetration. Reach around and tantalize her nipples or cup her breasts. Run your hands through her hair for a romantic touch!

Finally, if you reach around and touch her clitoris that is out there with nowhere to rub, it may send her through the roof!

FOR HER: You will like the position because of all the wonderful things he is doing back there. Also, the animalistic feeling is something that many women enjoy. Move your legs inside of his to tighten yourself around him. Tighten your thighs at the same time to keep your clitoris happy. Move your legs outside of his to take him deeper. Change the angle of your hips to bring him in contact with your G-spot.

Wanting to try this as a quickie in a semi-public area? Try a flouncy skirt!

source of information:

http://www.illustrated-lovemaking-positions.com

I'm Yours

Currently, I like this song by Jason Mraz. And I would like to dedicate to all my friend.

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30 Jul 08.

Re-write! Thank you to Anonymous for corrected me.

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Well you done done me and you bet I felt it
I tried to be chill but you're so hot that I melted
I fell right through the cracks
and now I'm trying to get back
Before the cool done run out
I'll be giving it my bestest
Nothing's going to stop me but divine intervention
I reckon it's again my turn to win some or learn some

I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait, I'm yours

Well open up your mind and see like me
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find love love love love
Listen to the music of the moment people dance and sing
We're just one big family
And It's our God-forsaken right to be loved love loved love loved

So I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours

Scooch closer dear
and i will nibble your ear

I've been spending way too long checking my tongue in the mirror
And bending over backwards just to try to see it clearer
My breath fogged up the glass
And so I drew a new face and laughed
I guess what i be saying is there ain't no better reason
To rid yourself of vanity and just go with the seasons
It's what we aim to do
Our name is our virtue

I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
this is our fate, I'm yours

Well no no, well open up your mind and see like me
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find the sky is yours
Listen to the music of the moment come and dance with me
A lá one big family (2nd time: A lá happy family; 3rd time: A lá peaceful melody)
It's your God-forsaken right to be loved love love love

I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait, I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours

No please, don't complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours

No please, don't hesitate
no more, no more
It cannot wait
The sky is your's!

The 'catchy' one!

'The Fuel Pistol'

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The Big Fat Kung Fu PANDA

The most interesting 'Kung Fu Panda' poster. I've watched the movie and it is a very nice movie/animation.

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Sexual Horoscopes

During my free time,I surfed and found this interesting article which i decided to share with everyone.

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AQUARIUS WOMEN: A slow starter, you idealize love and encompass it with tenderness. Once aroused though, anything goes! Extremely imaginative and like trying new things. There is nothing in any sex manual that you won't try. Belief that anything that increases the pleasure for your partner is worthwhile. Best sex mates: Aries, Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius and Aquarius. Favorite sex position: standing up, and in water.

AQUARIUS MEN: Never treats a woman like a sex object and prefers a variety of foreplay before getting down to it. May have be to revved up, but once his engine is started, he is free and inventive with amazing persistence. He will always see you through to climax. A woman who knows what she wants will be very happy. He usually ensures an orgasm twice - once orally and once genitally. Erogenous zones: gently touching the calves and ankles will get him going. Be careful though - a kinky Aquarian can be a sadist who doesn't like to be denied!

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ARIES WOMEN: Wildly sensual, passionate and adventurous. You'll have sex anywhere, you know what you want - intense and frequent sex, you have a need for complete control, but you also fall in love with love. As a mate, you are ardent, loyal, sentimental, and earthly. Biggest thrill -the tickle of a man's facial fuzz.

ARIES MEN: Sleeping with him is like playing croquet with live bombs-you never know what is going to happen! Never expect him to wait for you to be ready - he will rip your clothes off if he is ready to go. Don't tease him or you better be ready to deliver. Fond of slave master games and he likes it rough. Aries men are also explorers, so be ready to go where no woman has gone before. His favorite position: a woman on her knees leaning forward.

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CANCER WOMEN: Will never make the first move, but you can be a marvelous lover for you are capable of intense sensuality. You will reciprocate passion with a fervor that will stir his heart and stimulate him to his best performance. On your own time, you have a fondness for masturbation. Your favorite position: lying prone while your man enters you from behind. Best sex mates: Taurus, Leo, Virgo, Scorpio, and Pisces. You may become a slave to sexual pleasure!

CANCER MEN: His most surprising technique: intercourse with no hands. He has a need for constant encouragement and if gotten, he will be a delightful swain. Both patient and aggressive, he will often begin somewhere other than the bed, likes being in command, and is a master at manual clitoral manipulation! You'll like the trip, as it is as much traveling to a place as it is arriving. :)

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CAPRICORN WOMEN: Don't need much foreplay - you go from zero to WOW in nothing flat! Not interested in exotic variation, only in staying power. Since you like to dominate, you like to be astride your man, set a rhythm and please yourself. Once into the rhythm, lovemaking becomes a wild contest with orgasm as the prize and you can depend on getting there more than once. A scratcher and a screamer. Best sex mates: Taurus, Scorpio and Pisces.

CAPRICORN MEN: Sex evokes the best he can offer. He is a planner and a schemer. Prefers a woman who knows what he enjoys and he expects her to be willing and ready whenever he wants her. Has the stamina of a marathon runner. Here is the man who will hold off until you are ready to scream! Erogenous zone: a massage that starts at the lower back and gently strokes upward along the sides of his spine.

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GEMINI WOMEN: Often the aggressor, you are never embarrassed by your behavior because you never adhere to any standards except your own main requirement: a lover who knows how to take his time. You are a one woman harem, but a partner should be aware that in a relationship, the Gemini woman is looking for a combination of the spiritual and the physical, the romantic and the practical. You want to talk to the guy after you tumble with him! Best sex mates are Leo, Scorpio, Aquarians, Libra, and Aries. Favorite gadget: the vibrator.

GEMINI MEN: He likes it with the lights on in front of the mirror. He can work any partner into the mood because he knows exactly how to evoke the right responses. Oral sex isn't his favorite pastime, but he will take his time with other preliminaries. Tends to be fast and furious, more concerned with satisfying himself than his partner, but he is more adequate in areas of lovemaking that are often neglected by other men. He can tell a woman exactly what she wants to hear. His erogenous zone: move your lips and tongue lightly up his arm.

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LEO WOMEN: Sleek, lascivious, enticing and lazy! Whatever Leo wants, Leo gets! Intensely responsive and there are bed partners who have scars to prove it. Your need to show off leads you to prefer the top where he can look up and admire the beauty of your body. Best sex mates: Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, and Aries. Your sexual wardrobe: full of wispy cutout bras and panties!

LEO MEN: Simply brushes aside rules and conventions. One important rule to remember about him: NEVER tease. His endurance is remarkable & he has a great appetite for making love. He likes women in the submissive position & oral sex is okay only when he is on the receiving end. He likes a woman to show how much she is enjoying it. His erogenous zone: his back is particularly vulnerable.

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LIBRA WOMEN: Drama is the key word - you set the stage for sex. Intensely feminine and an instinctive exhibitionist. You feel your body was made to be seen and admired. Feel that seduction is an art, not an assault. When approached the right way, you find it easy to say yes to almost anything. Unusual control of vaginal muscles. Best sex mates: Aries, Gemini, Leo, Scorpio, Sagittarius, and Aquarius. Like any position where your buttocks are exposed.

LIBRA MEN: Looks for the whole experience, not just a tumble between the sheets. Has a definite kinky side, a voyeur and fond of the menage a trois. He has the patience needed to satisfy. He likes women who dress well and have long hair. If a woman's clothes look as though they are easily removed, he finds her hard to ignore. Erogenous zone: back and buttocks, especially the feel of erect nipples against either of them!

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PISCES WOMEN: Always make the right moves, say the right things and create the right ambiance. You are sexually liberated and enjoy a wide range of eroticism. If his fantasies coincide with yours, the action can really get torrid! You seldom say no to anything your lover suggests! Favorite place: in a waterbed or hot tub. Best sex mates: Cancer, Scorpio, Capricorn, and Pisces.

PISCES MEN: Takes the lead in lovemaking and impatient if he doesn't get a swift response. Indifferent to sexual restrictions, both moral and legal, prefers a partner with a tremendous sexual craving. Likes sex in a chair. He likes to be submissive. Becomes an addict to anything that will give pleasure and release. Erogenous zone: massaging and caressing his feet.

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SAGITTARIUS WOMEN: You like the outdoors - freaking out if you are in a tent, camper or on the beach. You enjoy sex, but you don't like to prolong the preliminaries and want to start the main show as soon possible. Like to tease your partner to the point of losing control. You don't mind if your man comes too quickly - you are a generous and accepting lover. Best sex mates: Leo, Libra and Aquarius. Your sexual wardrobe will consist of accessories - gloves and shoes!

SAGITTARIUS MEN: Sex is rarely an intense experience with him - he often comes too quickly, but he'll be the first to try a new position. He is the master of erotic massage - both oral and manual. His tongue can be wicked instrument and when combined with his lips, creates an explosive affect! Erogenous zones: hips and thighs. And he likes to look at a woman' calves and thighs and likes to have sex with a woman in stockings.

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SCORPIO WOMEN: Inquisitive, searching and experimental. Knows that eroticism consists of more than the physical act of lovemaking. While looking like a perfectly lady in public, you dress and behave like a whore in the bedroom. Control of the orgasm is very important and will try anything to help your man maintain his potency. You never take no for an answer and when interested in someone, you will pursue him with determination and guile. Best sex mates: Gemini, Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces. Props you love: scented body oils, flavored lubricating gels and vibrators.

SCORPIO MEN: A lustful, sexy animal. Enjoys biting and sucking and is a master of oral sex. Inflicting pain turns him on so he may pinch at nipples or the insides of thighs. Likes it in the water, but his kink is that he prefers wood tables and hard floors to satin and silk. His erogenous zone is his genitalia.

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TAURUS WOMEN: You expect your man to be kind and patient and make love to you by the book. Like to be pleased by sex, but don't look for unusual approaches. But you are a demanding lover and you leave your partner breathless. You have a need for oral gratification, both giving and receiving. Best sex mates: Cancer, Sagittarius, Scorpio, and Leo. Most likely kink: sucking on your toes, one by one. You also like biting.

TAURUS MEN: He is the ideal lover - sensitive and understanding of his partner's feelings. He prefers it slow and easy, he won't be your guide to the exotic unknown, but what he does, he does beautifully. This is the guy to go to for long and luxurious oral sex. Stamina? This man could wear down a glacier! His erogenous zone: gently and slowly kiss and bite the back of his neck.

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VIRGO WOMEN: You have no illusions about sex and wish everyone would stop magnifying its importance. Prefer men who will wait for the relationship to develop to the point where sex is inevitable. You love mutual masturbation and enjoy a little punishment and your grace and modesty is a great turn on. You become an artist at pleasing your lover. Favorite kink: can't truly enjoy it unless a third party is present. Best sex mates: Gemini, Cancer and Aquarians.

VIRGO MEN: Too shy to make an overture, you had better be prepared for him to bring his pajamas, having equipment and toothbrush. He likes to talk about how you like it & having talked about it, he will key in on the right erotic response. Don't expect imagination, but he is a hard worker and is open to suggestion. His secret life: can be obsessed with pornography. Erogenous zone: his buttocks.

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what do you think!

Who Loves You? - Part 1

Sometimes, I asking questions - Who are the people in my life who would be ready to ride the Intra Kota bus with me if my 'Nissan Fair Lady' is unserviceable, breaks down and has to send to workshop?

I got the answer, and I will say - my parents, my gf , who always with me when my 'Nissan Fair Lady' is serviceable and of course they would be ready to ride the bus with me. kan?

And, I really really hope and I mean it!

Other than that is my best friend, but how do I know who they are? (I got so many best friend meh!)
What are their characteristics? Do I even have any of them with me? But, I trust in friendship. I believe all my best friend also would be ready to ride the bus with me as long as I being a nice person, a nice friend to them. How I want to do it?

For me, as I hope other person can make me feel comfortable with them, I'll do the same to make them feel comfortable too. Be frank even it hards. Enuff! Simple!

'true friend bring out the best to each other.'

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It is hard to 'puaskan hati semua orang', but just do it! Try to do the best.

How about you, my friends? :)