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New Year’s Reflections

Looking back on the months gone by,
As a new year starts and an old one ends,
We contemplate what brought us joy,
And we think of our loved ones and our friends. Recalling all the happy times,
Remembering how they enriched our lives
We reflect upon who really counts,
As the fresh and bright new year arrives. And when I/we ponder those who do,
I/we immediately think of you. Thanks for being one of the reasons
I'll/We'll have a Happy New Year!

By Joanna Fuchs

Happy New Year Wish

My Happy New Year wish for you
Is for your best year yet,
A year where life is peaceful,
And what you want, you get. A year in which you cherish
The past year’s memories,
And live your life each new day
Full of bright expectancies. I wish for you a holiday
With happiness galore;
And when it’s done, I wish you
Happy New Year, and many more.

By Joanna Fuchs


New Year's Wishes

May you get a clean bill of health from your dentist, your cardiologist, your gastro-enterologist, your urologist, your proctologist, your podiatrist, your psychiatrist, your plumber and the I.R.S.



May your hair, your teeth, your face-lift, your abs and your stocks not fall; and may your blood pressure, your triglycerides, your cholesterol, your white blood count and your mortgage interest not rise.

May New Year's Eve find you seated around the table, together with your beloved family and cherished friends. May you find the food better, the environment quieter, the cost much cheaper, and the pleasure much more fulfilling than anything else you might ordinarily do that night.



May what you see in the mirror delight you, and what others see in you delight them. May someone love you enough to forgive your faults, be blind to your blemishes, and tell the world about your virtues.

May the telemarketers wait to make their sales calls until you finish dinner, may the commercials on TV not be louder than the program you have been watching, and may your check book and your budget balance - and include generous amounts for charity.



May you remember to say "I love you" at least once a day to your spouse, your child, your parent, your siblings; but not to your secretary, your nurse, your masseuse, your hairdresser or your tennis instructor.

And may we live in a world at peace and with the awareness of God's love in every sunset, every flower's unfolding petals, every baby's smile, every lover's kiss, and every wonderful, astonishing, miraculous beat of our heart.

CONDOLENCE

&

AL-FATIHAH

to all the victims and all the relatives
of
the Bukit Antara Bangsa Tragedy.

May ALLAH blesses all of them.

Amen!

Men Are Hard To Please??

I have found and read it during surfing. It looks like correct...correct..correct... but I think that one is not only the guys problem, gals also got this problem. Basically we are the same. But most of the points quite true for guys generally, but again to be honest gals are also hard to please too. The conclusion is HUMANS are hard to please, kan?
Here I pasted all the words I have collected... :)


The problems with GUYS:

If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with him;

If u Don"t, he says u are PROUD.

If u DRESS Nicely, he says u are trying to LURE him;

If u Don"t, he says u are from KAMPUNG.

If u ARGUE with him, he says u are STUBBORN;

If u keep QUIET, he says u have no BRAINS.

If u are SMARTER than him, he"ll lose FACE;

If he"s Smarter than u, he is GREAT.

If u don"t Love him, he tries to POSSESS u;

If u Love him, he will try to LEAVE u.(very true huh?)

If u don"t make love with him., he says u don"t Love him;

If u do!! he says u are CHEAP.

If u tell him your PROBLEM, he says u are TROUBLESOME;

If u don"t, he says that u don"t TRUST him.

If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him;

If he SCOLDS u, it is because he CARES for u.

If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be TRUSTED;

If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so.

If u SMOKE, u are BAD girl;

If he SMOKES, he is GENTLEMEN.

If u do WELL in your exams, he says it"s LUCK;

If he does WELL, it"s BRAINS.

If u HURT him, u are CRUEL;

If he HURTS u, u are too SENSITIVE!!


So, any gals or guys wanna share Why Guys Are Hard To Please referred to the statements above? You know, some of them said it is a funny thing, but it looks true and all the reason caused by the EGO. And, some of them feel angry about the statement. But on my side we have to look it on a positive side, if the statements are true then we have to rectify, repair our attitude, ourselves. Throw the negative manner away form ourselves.

"Yeah! It's true but you have to know some thing ... look to your fingers the are not same"

What do you think guys?

Review - How Big is Yours?

'It's not how big it is, it's what you do with it....'

'It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean....'

How Big Is Yours? We know that woman really wanna and will say sumtin about it. My personal view and my conclusion based on all the responses even the notty one are some of us doesn't know whether the size isn't important or not but reality of it is size doesn't matter for both men and women. In fact, a man with a big 'special tool' size has a confidence that he can satisfy any women and that's all. For sure it is about self-confidence and I have read that to some women size has not been the ultimate factor that make sex good or bad.

Everybody is different, physically. Big, small, slim, taller and short are characteristics of a man. There is not really a 'universal' or 'standard' perfect size when we talk about it. What do you think guys?

Yezza!! Mebbe some will say YES! and the rest will say NO!!. It is a matter of ongoing controversy.

But,when we think about the fact, this seems to be something that men are more concerned about than women.Why do guys worry and talk about his 'special tool' size so much?

I noticed the situation and I will say yes! But WHY?

The sad answer is that we are still stuck in this typical idea of sex, where the larger is better and can stay in a long time, perform a great task and make them more manly and a better lover. And, it closed the fact that lots of people are having a great sex with no 'special tool' involved at all!

Honestly, this fear usually eminates from a male's vanity rather than any concern he may feel about the pleasure a woman will receive. And it is really about the embarrassment a man imagines when being exposed as a guy with a small 'special tool'.

These feelings may lead to a perception of low self-worth. He may feel impotent and less a man than others. Guys, here I want to share something with you all.

Statement 1.

'I've had more problems with too large than too small. Perfect? 4-6 inches, with medium girth. Here's the pros and cons on small. The cons? There's trouble keeping it inside me during intercourse - and constantly having to "re-set" the table breaks the rhythm of things. The pros? Having a smaller penis means fuller insertion, and thus, more friction on the clitoris. Plus, smaller penises are easier to give head to. So my preference is on the smaller size. Here's the cons of too big (girth especially). It can be physically uncomfortable, and it makes me feel inadequate - like I can't take on more of him. Plus, having to build up slowly to full insertion breaks the rhythm of a sexual encounter. I haven’t had a ton of experience with too big, but in general I found more problems with them than pleasure or fulfillment. Could have been my partner, though, not his organ... '

Statement 2.

'To me, size absolutely does NOT matter. I'm 4'11" and very petite, so I don't need a whole lot of penis to fill me up. There was one guy who was so small that I wasn't sure if we'd had sex after we were done. (He was probably a couple of inches long and skinny as a pencil.) But anything bigger than that is generally ok. It's true that there's some "size queens" out there (women who just love really big penises), but that seems to be more of a mental thing than a physical need.'

I agree with the statements above which I have read in one of the magazine. I cannot remember it!

Everybody wants to be the best he/she can be. Even if it's "scientifically" big enough, the psychological effect of having a 'special tools' which you or your partner considers small can affect your confidence in the bedroom.

Even there are women who will say "I need it to be really big" but that's only her preference. There are some of them who think that 5 to 6 inches is just right. What matters is, "does your size please you?" "Does it make you feel good about yourself?" If what you have doesn't please you, then it won't please anyone else because you'll be so worried about your size that your technique will suffer. And, this is a matter of a self-confidence. The most important thing I guess is make sure you feel good with what you have, be confident and apply a proper technique which is a BIG part of what goes into pleasing women. So please get over it and move on. Be yourself, be ourselves!

What do you guys think about that?

Is It True!!!!!!!?????

What do you think about the article?

What do you think about the board who choose the logo?

Are you proud after reading this article, after knowing the truth about it?

too many questions in my mind....

Eid

Warmest Eid Greetings With Wishes for all of you

Hopefully everything will be 0-0.

How Big is Yours?

'Does ‘man’s tool’ Size Really Matter? What are the women’s Thoughts?'

I think men all over the world want always think about the same question.... Does size really a matter? Do women really care about a ‘man’s tool’ size?

Some of the common answers we find are "Size doesn’t matter; it just matters on how you use it".

But still cannot get the perfect answer. A lot of people out there still think that size doesn't matter while others think that it really does. So what is the real truth? Does ‘man’s tool’ size really matter to women?

Let us take a look for the situation below and think whether that is the real thing or how?

When you find someone special in your life and you want to ask her to marry you. Does the size of the diamond matter? I would say here, YES, in this case size is a matter! Most of woman wants a big diamond for her ring. Rite?

When you think about what it means, it may a matter to her friends and everyone else that is going to see this ring. And what is it that the size means to them?

Well, the size is an indication of a number of things, a symbolic. Such as, how much you love her is expressed in the size of the thing, how much you can afford to provide a good life for her, the size of the diamond influences how other women see her.

There were a few articles I have read suggested that the bigger the diamond the woman is wearing, the greater the influence she was said to have with business people or with financial dealings - even with other women.

Also, the size of your bank account may matter. I don’t think it will be an issue if you find the right woman and do not even deserve any further explanation. That's the IMPORTANT thing!! Find the right woman who can accept us as ourselves!

Size is also a matter when you buy a house. The bigger the house the more status you are thought to have. Again, the size of this will not matter much to the right woman.

We all know that bigger is better, right? Wrong!. The size of the diamond, house, bank account and other things should not matter a great deal when this woman is considering whether she wants to date you, marry you or just spend time with you. So, when we guys found the right woman, may be the size of our ‘tool’ does not a matter to her. Hopefully!

Nowadays, most of the woman is more to take care about the size of the diamond, bank account, and house than she is to care about your ‘tool’ size. If you find a woman who cares about you - most of that stuff will disappear because she will love the man that you are and not necessarily the tangible things you can give her.

I believe, based on my reading, women sex starts in the mind and it ends there too! What you have to do is to connect with her at the level she needs to feel understood, appreciated and loved. Do these things and she will not ask or want you to change a thing. In her eyes you are a perfect couple.

“Beauty is in the mind and not the eyes of the beholder.”

But, the conclusion is, the question has no specific answer. May be the visitor can write down something.

Does size really matter?
Do women really care about a ‘man’s tool’ size?

The Rules of LoVe

What does every woman want?

I think that is a question where most of the guy want to know the exact answer.

However, I dont want to write about the topic now because I want to share sumting called 'THE RULES of LOVE'.

I dunno whether the listed 'rules' are correct or not, but I found and read it in a journal, somewhere.

It looks interesting and I decided to place it in my 'compartment' here and wait to the response from you guy outside!

Hopefully, the attached photo is very clear for you guy to read; if NOT then please click on it to enlarge the photo. I wanna see ya frank comment. Let us (Man) to understand you (Woman) even a few.

Any one who disagree with all the rules, please raise up ya hand! We can propose and replace it with a neu one. Who cares!

Thank You Malaysia!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MALAYSIA

HAPPY 'MERDEKA' DAY

The traditional of nature's birth since 31 Aug 57, and now become the greatest
moment to our country, our Malaysia.
Today, 31st August 2008, the 51st anniversary of our beloved Malaysia.

Just wanna say,

"I'm proud to be Malaysian!."



*****

MERDEKA ! MERDEKA! MERDEKA!
Di sini gelap yang terang

khayalan menjadi terlalu tajam

dan kata-kata meranum

makna puisi yang kita baca di sini

kembar harum dari dasar hati

indah santun dan halus budi

pada puncak malam merdeka

suara kita menjadi bendera

rasa cinta dan maruah bangsa

- A. Samad Said -

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Behind the fly pass of the National Day


Setting priorities


Nothing comes close


Taking care of their own

REVIEW 1 : Tips to seduce a woman

' What woman really want from a man? '

I always ask myself this question. :)
What is in my mind? Basically, woman and man want the same things.Whatever the things in my mind - LOVE IS PRECIOUS!

Sometimes we have to turn ourselves to be a romantic person, sensual creature.

We should know; I think - What is the thing drives the women emotions to go to an exact men.How women decide to have a date with men?

And, I notice something, something that all of us know and want, something that happens everyday, everywhere between a woman and a man. What women want....

1. A man , who can makes her feels secure physically and emotionally.

2. A man, who can makes her feels good about herself - if you can make her feel good about herself, I think she would be willing to be around you all the times.

3. A man, who can makes her feels special - buy her flowers, buy her chocolates, YES! to make woman feels special is a hard job and takes much, much efforts. But it worth!

4. A man, who knows how to challenge her - A guy who treats her likes a princess, very agreeable, very attentive. A guy who wasn't afraid to tell her that she is wrong. A guy who doesn't give her whatever she wants, everything she wants. In short, a guy who knows how to handle a woman gently.

5. A man who knows how to appreciate them - This tips included the tips at para 2 & 3 above. I think this one is easy but so often overlooked by a man. As a man, we should let her know that she is a number one (numero uno) in our life, by complementing and reassuring her. It is important!

So, what does a woman want from a man? I think, the one who knows how to appreciate her and not afraid to tell her so.

6. A man, who has dreams and working to make them become reality.

7. A man, who knows how to manage money wisely. And knows how to be both frugal and generous.

8. A man, who knows what make them happy or sad and aware of what they want and understand what motivates their action or inaction.

9. A man, who can memorize and remember the important date, event ,jewelry, dinner and conversation between both of you. They (women) remember the first date, the first flower, the first hug and the first kiss, they romanticize everything.

10. A man, who can 'talk'. - What they really want from a man is not TALK at all, but LISTEN. Be a good listener to them. For record, don't try to talk to her out of her opinion ( you can do it but you should try to find an exact situation), don't try to offer an advice, don't make light her problem or tell her to quit worrying. Just listen and that's all you have to do.


Could anyone add something here based on the real experience or from the things happened around you?

"Perhaps the feelings that we experience when
we are in love represent a normal state.
Being in love shows a person who he/she should be."