If You Dare...!

I just wanna share what I've read with you all guys. Read it and think about it!


Explore a healthy and loving way to gain a deeper sexual connection with your partner. The explorations you may desire to try can end up creating more harm than good. Make sure you both are aware of your limitations and your comfort zones.

The Threesome

Personally, I don't encourage couples to have a third-party enter into the scenario. For some couples it may work perfectly fine, although for most the experience can result in harboring jealousy and resentment. But this is an idea and not more. For instance, you may try:

• calling a couple's phone sex line
• taking advantage of the use of sexual toys to achieve multiple feelings (suka hati ler....)
• mocking an encounter with a third person by blindfolding your partner and pretending to be two people (tapi, rasanya korang mesti jeles, lagi baik jangan buat la)
  

Sex on the Beach

More than a name for a great drink, sex on the beach can be a beautifully erotic experience. If you are not fortunate enough to live close to a beach, or fear public exposure, you can easily recreate this experience with a little imagination. Suitable alternatives include making use of a pool, hot tub or bubble bath. If outdoors, make sure it is a night of a full moon. If indoors, play a CD of ocean sounds and light a few candles to help set the mood.

Sex In A Public Place

The ideas for public sexual encounters are endless. A few of the classic ideas include making love at the drive-in, having sex at a hotel with the windows open, on a rooftop, on a patio or balcony and in the woods.

Role Playing an Encounter

Role-playing is a very creative outlet, and can steam up any night of passion. A few role-playing scenarios you and your partner might enjoy include police officer and suspect, teacher and student, nurse and patient, construction worker and house wife, or employer and employee. To add authenticity, dress up in your role and truly act in character. Do agree to have a code word to stop, for the unlikely case that things get too uncomfortable.

Domination

There is many varying degrees of domination. Most couples admit that a slight degree of domination by their partner is an exciting turn on. A light game of domination could consist of simple requests such as kiss me here, or wash me there, feed me those strawberries, etc. If this is something you'd both like to try you'll need to set verbal guidelines of what would be considered going too far for each partner. Again, agree on a code word that indicates for the other person to stop.

Be honest, what do you think about the idea?