'It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean....'
Everybody is different, physically. Big, small, slim, taller and short are characteristics of a man. There is not really a 'universal' or 'standard' perfect size when we talk about it. What do you think guys?
Yezza!! Mebbe some will say YES! and the rest will say NO!!. It is a matter of ongoing controversy.
But,when we think about the fact, this seems to be something that men are more concerned about than women.Why do guys worry and talk about his 'special tool' size so much?
I noticed the situation and I will say yes! But WHY?
The sad answer is that we are still stuck in this typical idea of sex, where the larger is better and can stay in a long time, perform a great task and make them more manly and a better lover. And, it closed the fact that lots of people are having a great sex with no 'special tool' involved at all!
Honestly, this fear usually eminates from a male's vanity rather than any concern he may feel about the pleasure a woman will receive. And it is really about the embarrassment a man imagines when being exposed as a guy with a small 'special tool'.
These feelings may lead to a perception of low self-worth. He may feel impotent and less a man than others. Guys, here I want to share something with you all.
'I've had more problems with too large than too small. Perfect? 4-6 inches, with medium girth. Here's the pros and cons on small. The cons? There's trouble keeping it inside me during intercourse - and constantly having to "re-set" the table breaks the rhythm of things. The pros? Having a smaller penis means fuller insertion, and thus, more friction on the clitoris. Plus, smaller penises are easier to give head to. So my preference is on the smaller size. Here's the cons of too big (girth especially). It can be physically uncomfortable, and it makes me feel inadequate - like I can't take on more of him. Plus, having to build up slowly to full insertion breaks the rhythm of a sexual encounter. I haven’t had a ton of experience with too big, but in general I found more problems with them than pleasure or fulfillment. Could have been my partner, though, not his organ... '
Statement 2.
'To me, size absolutely does NOT matter. I'm 4'11" and very petite, so I don't need a whole lot of penis to fill me up. There was one guy who was so small that I wasn't sure if we'd had sex after we were done. (He was probably a couple of inches long and skinny as a pencil.) But anything bigger than that is generally ok. It's true that there's some "size queens" out there (women who just love really big penises), but that seems to be more of a mental thing than a physical need.'
I agree with the statements above which I have read in one of the magazine. I cannot remember it!
Everybody wants to be the best he/she can be. Even if it's "scientifically" big enough, the psychological effect of having a 'special tools' which you or your partner considers small can affect your confidence in the bedroom.
Even there are women who will say "I need it to be really big" but that's only her preference. There are some of them who think that 5 to 6 inches is just right. What matters is, "does your size please you?" "Does it make you feel good about yourself?" If what you have doesn't please you, then it won't please anyone else because you'll be so worried about your size that your technique will suffer. And, this is a matter of a self-confidence. The most important thing I guess is make sure you feel good with what you have, be confident and apply a proper technique which is a BIG part of what goes into pleasing women. So please get over it and move on. Be yourself, be ourselves!
What do you guys think about that?
