The Most Honest One!

Here, a comment thru my YM.

***************

One of my best friend commented my A-Think-To-Share-With as:

"u punya blog ni penuh dgn keghairahan."
(your blog full with sexual content)

I smiled for a while after read the comment.

***************

Basically, I agreed with the comment.

But I purposely placed everything here (sexual & non-sexual) as general information & knowledge in a positive tone. Anyway, whatever the tone of the comment come back to me,
I will and I am happy to accept it in order to improve
myself, my life, my view and etcetera.

That is the main reason why i set up my A-Think-To-Share-With.

:)

**********
'Picture of you in my mind'

Normally, people tends to talk or to look for a bad things compare to a good things.
They will exaggerate it and highlight it so the thing will really really
looks negative.

To be fair,

I will take a consideration that everybody has their own perception
and their own view on how they are looking at
'the big picture'.


**********

In short,
I dare to say that we are responsible for what we choose to thing and to do,
if we say that 'A' is a good thing,
it doesn't mean that 'A' is a good thing to other person too.
Mebbe, they will choose 'B' and say,

" B is good than A, because B means bagus..."

:)

************

Anyway, that is a very good comment I ever had.
The most honest one!



i'm happy just the way i am

A Conclusion from a friend

About my 'A Think To Share With'...

Thru YM, one of my friend concluded it as:

lingxia:

U DH KENA KAHWIN CEPAT..SEBAB U FEEL LONELY(BKN HORNY-BAHASA BAIK SIKIT) SANGAT2 DAHHH
KALAU I X KENAL U..BILA BACA ..DLM BLOG TU..I TAHU U BELUM KAHWIN
ERMM..
IYER
ITU YG I RASA LER..

Is it my 'A Think To Share With' really really showed the characteristic of Me as my friend has said?

Empty Room vs. My Puzzle

I dunno what to do, flu makes me feels uncomfortable, with 'hiung yang berair, and 'tak henti henti bersin'. Huh! I really hate it!!

************

*************************

- AN EMPTY ROOM -

where we learn to live without love...

I will call my 'compartment' here as 'An Empty Room'.

Here is about 'my puzzle' called -

'A Think To Share With'

It is like a set of puzzle for me, I try to collect all the things inside and outside in order to make ' a bigger picture' where I can look and find out neu things around me. The solution in order to make ' a bigger picture' is to combine your personal opinion, your personal view, your real experience based on what I pasted or wrote here. The solution that fit together like pieces of puzzle and the one piece which is the final piece in the puzzle that completing the picture. The picture of US, the picture of YOU,ME & THEY!

Sometimes, during collecting every single piece of the puzzle, it gives me the questions with no answer, the conundrum. Sometimes it is juz an outcry....an outcry with no repartee about the subject, even it is hard for us to accept it and of cause it is only a piece of incomplete puzzle of our long trip.

Mebbe we made mistakes, but everybody made mistakes too. In life, the most important thing is not how good we are, but how good we want to be, to our mum & dad, our brothers, our loved one, our friends, our neighbours and to everybody.

We should know, who is the most important person in our life, of coz ourselves, of coz you; yourself. We are responsible for what we choose to think and to do. If it becomes a breakthrough, it still our responsibility and if it becomes a failure, of coz it is our responsibility too.

For me; myself, I always put in my mind that confidence does not come out of nowhere. But it is a result of something which take a lot of time ..... hours and days and weeks and years of constant work and dedication. That's why I should learn from your experiences and think about it, about everything. That how my 'puzzle' works here!

John Raiston once said; "Success comes in CANS, not CANNOTS."

But, sometimes success is not everything in life, it is just a thing. There are so many things we have to look and pay more attention.

As Uthman bin Affan said long long time ago; "You will never feel sad if you know what you are looking for."

I think it is right, what about you ?

In the middle of nowhere, as a complimentary I would like to say 'thank you very much' for those person who have contributed and spent time to write sumtin in 'A Think To Share With'. I hope my trip to fit all the pieces of puzzle in my life will success with your assistance. In life, in doing everything, the most important than victory is effort. At the center of effort is courage. And, of coz our inspiration!

I'm Yours

Currently, I like this song by Jason Mraz. And I would like to dedicate to all my friend.

************

30 Jul 08.

Re-write! Thank you to Anonymous for corrected me.

******************

Well you done done me and you bet I felt it
I tried to be chill but you're so hot that I melted
I fell right through the cracks
and now I'm trying to get back
Before the cool done run out
I'll be giving it my bestest
Nothing's going to stop me but divine intervention
I reckon it's again my turn to win some or learn some

I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait, I'm yours

Well open up your mind and see like me
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find love love love love
Listen to the music of the moment people dance and sing
We're just one big family
And It's our God-forsaken right to be loved love loved love loved

So I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours

Scooch closer dear
and i will nibble your ear

I've been spending way too long checking my tongue in the mirror
And bending over backwards just to try to see it clearer
My breath fogged up the glass
And so I drew a new face and laughed
I guess what i be saying is there ain't no better reason
To rid yourself of vanity and just go with the seasons
It's what we aim to do
Our name is our virtue

I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
this is our fate, I'm yours

Well no no, well open up your mind and see like me
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find the sky is yours
Listen to the music of the moment come and dance with me
A lá one big family (2nd time: A lá happy family; 3rd time: A lá peaceful melody)
It's your God-forsaken right to be loved love love love

I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait, I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours

No please, don't complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours

No please, don't hesitate
no more, no more
It cannot wait
The sky is your's!

The 'catchy' one!

Me & My Thinking

Lately when i feel stress or tension, I prefer to surf the internet and read the articles relates to human life. About love, about kiss, about relationship, about hugging etcetera.


I think that's the best way for me to release what i called sometimes as 'a simmering tension', yeah! depends on the situation. I am happy just the way I am, I try to be frank to everybody ( I think so) but it still hard for me to share everything with the rest directly. I will slowly share everything without they (my friends) notice it. But sometimes I never share it cause I can let it gone. I think I am a very simple person but I don't know your (My friend) perception towards me.

'true friend bring out the best to each other'

It sounds nice, perfect! But it is hard to bring out the best and to be the best even for myself. My friend said that, things we cannot get are the best things available.


But, why we cannot get the things, why we cannot have the things? Is it because we are not pretty/handsome enuff?


or,


We have nothing, we are not as rich as other person?


or, We are not as clever as other person?


But, being handsome/pretty or clever is a subjective matter. May be, that girl/guy looks nice (mamamia!) to me but for your eyes she is just like a normal person.


And, may be 'A' is good in Engineering but he knows nothing about Agriculture, but it doesn't mean that he is an idiot. So, now we can see that in life, sometimes we simply make a negative comment and complain, give bad perception to other person.


In life, may be we make a mistake but everyone makes a mistake too. The most important thing about make a mistake is how we learn the to manage and control the situation. Without the mistake, we will never learn about how to avoid it or how to overcome it.


For me, it is not how good you are, but how good you wanna be especially for you parents, your loved one, your friends, your neighbors and the rest.


When I write something or share something thru my blog, I just write it without take a consideration about the grammar, about the sequences, about the topic. I just let my mind and my finger delivers what is in my big head.


I just make it simple!



The illustration showed two object, one a toothbrush and the other a toilet paper. The toothbrush said to the toilet paper "Sometimes i feel that i have the worst job in the world. And the toilet paper said, ya... right!

Without enuff thinking, may be it makes us laugh but, the most important thing is; does the illustration make us ask ourselves this question?

Have we ever look around us and see what others are facing before we open our mouth and start complaining?

Check it out and think about it...

'It's never as good as you think it is, and it is never bad as you think it is.'