what ever !

I dunno why,

I dunno what happens,

I feel exhausted,

I feel like 'sensitive',

arghhhhh........ ' ..the simmering tensions are just bubbling under the surface and may spark out without any notice! '

I'm not feeling good,

I'm not feeling well,

..... rite now! STRESS!! and, I dunno WHY!

chiao-chiao! gud nite!

The Comparison

The top 40 richest in Malaysia for 2008 are:

1. Robert Kuok USD 10 billion, 84, married, 8 children.
Kuok Group, Pacific Carriers Ltd, Transmile Group, Wilmar International

2. Ananda Krishnan USD 7.2 billion, 70, married, 3 children.
Maxis Communications, Aircel Ltd, Astro All Asia Networks

3. Lee Shin Cheng USD 5.5 billion, 69, married, 6 children.
IOI Group

4. Teh Hong Piow USD 3.5 billion, 78, married, 4 children.
Public Bank

5. Lee Kim Hua & family USD 3.4 billion, 79, widow, 6 children.
Genting Group

6. Quek Leng Chan USD 2.4 billion, 67, married, 3 children.
Hong Leong Group, Guoco Group, Rank Group

7. Yeoh Tiong Lay and family USD 2.1 billion, 78, widow, 7 children.
YTL Corporation

8. Syed Mokhtar AlBukhary USD 1.8 billion, 56, married, 5 children.
Malaysia Mining Corporation (MMC), Malaysia Johor Port, Malakoff, Gas Malaysia

9. Vincent Tan USD 1.3 billion, 56, married, 11 children.
Berjaya Group

10. Tiong Hiew King USD 1.1 billion, 78, married, 4 children.
Rimbunan Hijau Group, Tri-M Technologies

11. Azman Hashim USD 700 million, 68, married, 5 children.
AMCorp Group, Ambank

12. William H. J. Cheng USD 660 million, 65, married, 3 children.
Lion Group

13. Lee Swee Eng USD 495 million, 52, married.
KNM Group

14. Ong Beng Seng USD 470 million, 63, married, 2 children.
Hotel Properties Ltd, Natsteel

15. Lim Kok Thay USD 345 million, 56, married, 3 children.
Genting Group, Star Cruises. Alliance Global

16. Vinod Sekhar USD 320 million, 40, married, 2 children.
Petra Group, Green Rubber Global

17. Lee Oi Hian USD 300 million, 57, married, 4 children.
Kuala Lumpur Kepong, Crabtree & Evelyn

18. Yaw Teck Seng USD 295 million, 70, married.
Samling Group

19. Anthony Fernandes USD 290 million, 44, married.
AirAsia, Tune Hotel, AirAsia X

20. Mokhzani Mahathir USD 285 million, 47, married, 5 children.
Kencana

21. Kamarudin Meranun USD 280 million, 47, married, 5 children.
AirAsia, Tune Hotel, AirAsia X

22. Jeffrey Cheah USD 275 million, 63, married, 3 children.
Sunway Group

23. Lee Hau Hian USD 250 million, 55, married, 1 children.
Batu Kawan, Kuala Lumpur Kepong

24. Chong Chook Yew USD 245 million, 86, widow, 4 children.
Selangor Properties

25. Yaw Chee Ming USD 240 million, 49, married.
Samling Group

26. G. Gnanalingam USD 230 million, 63, married, 3 children.
Westports

27. Lim Wee Chai USD 200 million, 50, married, 2 children.
Top Glove

28. Kua Sian Kooi USD 195 million, 55, married, 4 children.
Kurnia Asia

29. Lau Cho Kun USD 185 million, 72, married.
Gek Poh Holding, Malaysian Mosaics, Hap Seng

30. Abdul Hamed Sepawi USD 180 million, 58, married, 2 children.
Ta Ann

31. David Law Tien Seng USD 165 million.
Midwest, Sinosteel, T.S.Law Holding

32. Tiah Thee Kian USD 163 million, 61, married, 5 children.
TA Enterprise

33. Liew Kee Sin USD 160 million, 50, married, 4 children.
SP Setia

34. Ahmayuddin Ahmad USD 155 million, 51, married, 4 children.
Westports, Pelikan

35. Eleena Azlan Shah USD 150 million, 48, married.
Gamuda

36. Lin Yun Ling USD 145 million, 53, married, 2 children.
Gamuda

37. Ong Leong Huat USD 130 million, 64, married, 4 children.
OSK Group

38. Lim Thian Kiat USD 115 million, 50, divorced.
Former head of conglomerate Multi-Purpose

39. Khoo Kay Peng USD 110 million, 69.
MUI, Laura Ashley

40. Nazir Razak USD 100 million, 41, married.
CIMB, Bumiputra Commerce Holdings

Malaysia's 40 Richest For Year 2007

1. Robert Kuok
$7.6 billion
84. Married, 8 children

Onetime rice and sugar trader heads multinational Kuok Group with interests ranging from shipping to real estate to media. Merging extensive Malaysian, Indonesian palm oil interests with Singapore's Wilmar International, already run by his nephew. Also has stake in Transmile Group, air cargo outfit that recently delayed filing its financial statements and announced special audit.

2. Ananda Krishnan
$7.4 billion
69. Divorced, 3 children

In May announced plans to pay $5 billion to take his telecom company, Maxis, private. Capped off already busy year: After delays his Measat launched its third satellite in December. His satellite TV provider Astro launched a joint venture with India's Sun TV Group in April. Also signed joint venture with A&E Television Network.

3. Lim Goh Tong
$4.3 billion
90. Married, 6 children

Former public works contractor built enormous gaming and resort empire. His First World Hotel has 6,200 rooms, earning it the Guinness World Record for world's largest hotel. Retired as chairman in 2003. Marked his 90th birthday this year with a 9-foot-tall granite statue at his Genting casino resort.

4. Lee Shin Cheng
$3.9 billion
68. Married, 6 children

Former plantation field supervisor now heads IOI Group, one of world's leading operators of palm oil plantations, refineries. His plants produce specialty oils, metallic stearates, fats used in soaps, detergents, cosmetics, food additives. Leading real estate developer also building townships, shopping malls, resorts in Malaysia.

5. Teh Hong Piow
$3.5 billion
77. Married, 4 children

Former bank clerk used profits from real estate deal to open bank in 1966. Today Public Bank has 13,400 employees, 240 branches, including 56 in Hong Kong, 1 in Shenzhen.

6. Quek Leng Chan
$3 billion
66. Married, 3 children

Heads Hong Leong Group Malaysia, conglomerate involved in banking, semiconductor manufacturing, ceramic tile manufacturing, motorcycle distribution. Expected to start introducing casinos in selected Thistle Hotels, the U.K. luxury chain it owns.

7. Syed Mokhtar AlBukhary
$2 billion
55. Married, 5 children

Former rice trader now controls Malaysia Mining Corporation (MMC); has stakes in Malaysia's Johor Port; country's largest independent power producer Malakoff; natural gas distributor Gas Malaysia. Donates to Islamic schools, mosques, arts.

8. Yeoh Tiong Lay
$1.8 billion
77. Widowed, 7 children

Founded YTL Corp., one of Malaysia's largest conglomerates, with interests in construction, utilities, hotels, property development and technology. Recently proposed building $2.3 billion bullet train that would cover 200-mile journey between Kuala Lumpur and Singapore in 90 minutes. Son Francis runs YTL's daily operations.

9. Tiong Hiew King
$1.2 billion
71. Married, 3 children

His timber flagship, Rimbunan Hijau, celebrated 30th anniversary in 2006 by inaugurating 2 palm oil mills and 2 resorts in his native Sarawak and listing his Sarawak palm oil interests in Malaysia. Merging his three Chinese- language publishing firms in Malaysia (Nanyang Press Holdings and Sin Chew Media Corp.) and Hong Kong (Ming Pao Enterprises).

10. William Cheng
$650 million
64. Married

Runs the Lion group, which has interests in plantations, steel, property. Though nicknamed "Steel King," biggest source of wealth his stake in Chinese retailer Parkson Retail, which he chairs. Married to former Chinese pop singer. Also known as Cheng Heng Jem.

11. Azman Hashim
$600 million
67. Married, 5 children

Bought first bank 25 years ago. Last November agreed to sell 14% stake in banking group AMMB to Australia's ANZ for $350 million. Still has 19% stake as well as holdings in other financial service companies. Chairs Malaysian Investment Banking Association, Malaysia-Japan Economic Association. Has 10 grandchildren.

12. Ong Beng Seng
$580 million
62. Married, 2 children

Malaysian citizen known as OBS lives in Singapore, where he has many investments in luxury hotels, real estate, steel. Has joint venture with Giorgio Armani to double number of A/X shops worldwide. Longtime partner of Hard Rock, his office situated above a Hard Rock Cafe. Just closed deal to bring Formula One racing to the island nation. Wife, Christina, whose family made fortune in oil trading, often invests alongside him.

13. Yaw Teck Seng
$460 million
69. Married

Started out in logging in 1963. Later picked up three small forest concessions, which eventually became Samling (which means "three trees" in Mandarin) now one of the world's largest forestry groups. Turned over management to his son Chee Ming (No. 15).

14. Vincent Tan
$380 million
55. Married

Has run Berjaya, which means "success" in Malay, since 1984; interests in hotels, lotteries, real estate and financial services. Selling its stake in moneylosing U.S. eatery Roadhouse Grill; setting up a school in China. Last July went to Bosnia, reportedly to visit and fund the excavation of controversial "pyramids" that some say are proof of a lost civilization.

15. Yaw Chee Ming
$370 million
47.

Chief executive of Samling Global, founded by his father. M.B.A. from University of Southern California has helped professionalize group with new IT, accounting systems. Took it public on Hong Kong stock exchange earlier this year. Offering was subject of protests by human rights and environmental groups. Company denies any violations.

16. Vinod Sekhar
$350 million
38. Married, 2 children

Heads privately held Petra Group, named after his daughter. Group developed several technologies, including patented process called DeLink that devulcanizes used rubber so it can be recycled. Now negotiating with companies, governments to commercialize process. Forbes Vice Chairman Christopher Forbes is minor shareholder in group. Sekhar loves Cuban cigars; collects ties with Mickey Mouse motifs. His father, a former head of Malaysian government's rubber agency, died last September.

17. Jeffrey Cheah
$325 million
62. Married, 3 children

Accountant started a tin mining company in 1974. Later became Sunway Group, which develops properties, runs tolls, manages quarries. Stock of its property outfit, Sunway City, soaring.

18. Chong Chook Yew
$320 million
85. Widowed, 4 children

Columbia University grad, took over as chairperson of Selangor Properties after her husband, Wen Tien Kuang, Selangor's founder, died in 2000. Company got approval from Malaysian stock exchange in December to list its subsidiary, Help University College in Kuala Lumpur. Offering expected later this year.

19. Lim Kok Thay
$310 million
55. Married

Son of Lim Goh Tong (No. 3) took over as chairman of Genting Group in 2003. In December Genting won rights to gaming-and- entertainment resort on Singaporean island of Sentosa; plans include Universal Studios theme park. Reportedly pulled out of joint venture with Macau gaming tycoon Stanley Ho earlier this year. Also runs Star Cruises, world's third-largest cruise operator.

20. Lim Wee Chai
$300 million
49. Married, 2 children

Started company in 1991 with only three secondhand production facilities and turned his Top Glove into one of world's largest producers of rubber gloves. Last year the $285 million (sales) company announced plans to expand into rubber plantations. In March acquired controlling stake in Singapore rival Medi-Flex.

21. Kua Sian Kooi
$295 million
54. Married, 4 children

Started out as insurance salesman in 1974; now heads Kurnia Asia, one of Malaysia's biggest insurance companies, which he bought in 1991. In April acquired 80% stake in Indonesian insurance firm Aegis.

22. Tiah Thee Kian
$240 million
59. Married, 5 children

In 2002 stepped down as head of TA Enterprise, with sprawling interests in financial services, after being convicted of reporting irregularities on the Malaysia bourse. Wife Tan Kuay Fong has run show since, but Tiah is rumored to be returning now that his five-year ban against directing a public company is over.

23. Mustapha Kamal Abu Bakar
$235 million
58. Married, 4 children

Cofounded MK Land with Kasi K.L. Palaniappan (No. 40) in 1983. Together transformed it into one of country's largest property developers, with land bank of 6,800 acres. Stepped down as executive director in April, amid reports that he and Palaniappan clashed on management style; remains nonexecutive chairman.

24. Anthony Fernandes
$230 million
43. Married

Head of AirAsia, region's largest discount airline, now investing in new industries (see story, p. 30). Avid collector of baseball caps. Also a fan of Miles Davis, LL Cool J.

25. Seri Eleena Raja Azlan Shah
$228 million

Trained as lawyer in U.K. Set up her own firm in Malaysia in 1987. Her wealth comes from her being the largest individual shareholder in construction firm Gamuda.

26. Lee Oi Hian
$225 million
56. Married, 4 children

Son of late rubber baron Lee Loy Seng, heads chemicals company Batu Kawan and Kuala Lumpur Kepong, with interests in palm oil; owns retailer Crabtree & Evelyn. Chairs Malaysian Palm Oil Council.

27. Lee Hau Hian
$224 million
54. Married, 1 child

Managing director of Batu Kawan. Like brother Lee Oi Hian (above) has share in the group and Kuala Lumpur Kepong. Third brother Soo Hian doesn't appear to have own stakes so drops from list.

28. Mokhzani Mahathir
$220 million
46. Married, 5 children

Son of Malaysia's former prime minister Mohamad Mahathir. Petroleum engineer chairs energy company Kencana, which went public in December. Distributor of Porsche in Malaysia; personally owns four. Amateur race car driver also chairs a race track.

29. G. Gnanalingam
$215 million
62. Married, 3 children

Runs Westports, Malaysia's largest privately owned port, which he founded in 1994. Said to be making way for son Ruben to eventually take over. Also owns a stake in pencilmaker Pelikan and logistics firm Konsortium Logistiks.

30. Abdul Hamed Sepawi
$200 million
57. Married, 2 children

Has grown timber outfit, Ta Ann, from small trading firm to group with more than 3,000 employees. Benefiting from strong demand for plywood. Chairs property firm Naim Cendera, director of power company Sarawak Enterprise.

31. Kamarudin Meranun
$190 million
45. Married, 5 children

Cofounded AirAsia with Tony Fernandes (No. 24). Deputy group chief executive company's second-largest individual shareholder. Previously spent more than decade in financial services.

32. Lau Cho Kun
$185 million

Largest shareholder in Malaysian Mosaics, which makes tiles, and Hap Seng, a construction company. His holding company bought out Malaysian Mosaics' stake in Hap Seng. Lau holds no position at either company.

33. Ong Leong Huat
$175 million
63. Married, 5 children

Runs OSK group, which includes financial services firm OSK Holdings, OSK Property, OSK Ventures.

34. Lin Yun Ling
$160 million
52. Married, 2 children

Managing director of construction firm Gamuda. Has 30 years of experience in civil engineering and construction.

35. Liew Kee Sin
$155 million
48. Married, 4 children

Started career as banker. Joined real estate outfit SP Setia in 1996 as a director, later became chief executive. Recently sponsored free two-day musical concert for 80,000, with some of Malaysia's biggest pop stars, plus fireworks.

36. Lee Swee Eng
$150 million
Married

Engineer cofounded oil services and equipment company KNM in 2000. Fast growth being fueled by acquisitions and strong sales from dozens of clients including U.S. firm Halliburton

37. Ahmayuddin bin Ahmad
$140 million
50. Married, 4 children

Board member, along with colleague G. Gnanalingam (No. 29) of Westports, Malaysia's largest privately owned port. Also has stakes in pencilmaker Pelikan, logistics firm Konsortium Logistiks.

38. Hamdan Mohamad
$135 million
51. Married, 2 children

Runs infrastructure and engineering conglomerate Ranhill Group. Its Ranhill Utilities is one of the country's biggest water suppliers. More than half of Ranhill Group's sales are outside of Malaysia. Current projects include housing contract to build 10,000 apartments in Tripoli and hydropower plant in Pakistan. Avid polo player.

39. Khoo Kay Peng
$130 million

Through his MUI conglomerate has interests in about 10 public companies. Most valuable holding is British retailer Laura Ashley, which he chairs. MUI started out as maker of toothbrushes and household items in 1960.

40. Kasi K.L. Palaniappan
$127 million
49.

Former architect and university professor founded MK Land with Mustapha Kamal Abu Bakar. Took over as managing director and acting chief executive in April; share price subsequently doubled.

Source: Forbes.com CLICK HERE!

Guys,

Don't you ever think, why we are not in the list?

How Do I Live - There would be no love in my life

How do I,

Get through the night without you?

If I had to live without you,

What kind of life would that be?

Oh, I

I need you in my arms, need you to hold,

You're my world, my heart, my soul,

If you ever leave,

baby you would take away everything good in my life,

and tell me now

How do I live without you?

I want to know,

How do I breathe without you?

If you ever go,

How do I ever, ever survive?

How do I, how do I, oh how do I live?

Without you,

There'd be no sun in my sky,

There would be no love in my life,

There'd be no world left for me.

And I,

Baby I don't know what I would do,

I'd be lost if I lost you,

*

If you ever leave,

Baby you would take away everything real in my life,

And tell me now,

How do I live without you?

I want to know,

How do I breathe without you?

If you ever go,

How do I ever, ever survive?

How do I, how do I, oh how do I live?

**

Please tell me baby,

How do I go on?

If you ever leave,

Baby you would take away everything,

I need you with me,

Baby don't you know that you're everything,

Real in my life?

And tell me now,

How do I live without you,

I want to know,

How do I breathe without you?

If you ever go,

How do I ever, ever survive?

How do I, how do I, oh how do I live?

How do I live without you?

How do I live without you baby?

I love this song. I love when it talks about how she/he can't live without the person she/he really loves and just really wants to be with her/him! And, this is the song of you and me since out first date.

I dedicated 'our anthem' to you my dear, the one and only in my life! ....... i miss you baby!

' a memory of true love is like a favourite song; no matter how many times it plays again, you never get tired of it.'

10 Sexiest Women

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Setting Priorities for your Relationship

How do you set your priorities within a relationship?

When we talk about relationships, actually it is about goal setting. Once you have falling in love, both of you start focusing on the goals for the relationship, such as where you want it to lead and what your relationships beliefs are. One of the main reasons many couples break up is because they never shared their relationship goals with each other. As I told that relationships is a ‘sharing’, but most people forget about it. Most people just let the relationship do its own work and move naturally, and when it is okay in some cases, it is important to keep in touch with what each of you is planning for the relationship. Everybody has goals and aim to reach or get something in the future.

Besides the fact that you were attracted to each other and shared common interests and fell in love, what really are your goals for the relationship? Though you can never predict what will really happen in the future of the relationship, you do already have an idea of what you wish to give and receive from this romantic partnership. It is important that you fully understand what your goals are first before having this talk with your partner. Are you looking for a serious partner or just someone you can spend time with so you are not lonely? Would you like the relationship to eventually lead to marriage or is marriage not the most important goal for you at this time? When you figure out exactly what your goals are in the relationship you will then need to learn why those goals are so important for you right now. For example, if marriage is a goal for you- why is getting married so important to you at this point in your life? You need to understand your reasons for your goals and make sure you are setting those goals for the right reasons. And, the most important thing is being prepared for your future with your partner. Life is not easy.

Once you have figured out your goals you should then share them with your partner and then listen to what his or her goals are as well so that you both can see exactly where you both stand individually and as a couple. If there are differences in the goals you both have, you then need find a compromise you both feel is fair to the relationship. Not having the same exact relationship goals does not mean that you are meant to be together, but it does mean that more communication is necessary so you can always keep track of where your relationship is leading and if it is lacking anything that it needs. Plan ways on how you can both accomplish each of your relationship goals and talk about which methods you both feel will work best. Goals can change over time too, which is exactly why you and your partner should touch base on each of your thoughts so you never reach a point where the relationship feels lost and confusing for one or both of you.

Though it is important to understand your partner’s goals, it is more important to keep in touch what you really want and need from the relationship. Losing your direction can cause you to stay in a relationship even if it no longer fulfills your needs and desires. Partner’s can change and there is nothing you can do to change him or her unless they choose to, so the power you do have in holding on to the dreams you have for yourself and never lower your expectations in a relationship just because you want to stay with your partner. Neither of you should have to lower your expectation for the other; you should always work together in keeping the relationship on track. With direct communication and good goal setting, your relationship can continuously lead to stronger and more fulfilling stages that please you both.

I'm Not For You

Dahulu kau mencintaiku

Dahulu kau menginginkan ku

Meskipun tak pernah ada jawab ku

Tak berniat kau tinggalkan aku

*

Sekarang kau pergi menjauh

Sekarang kau tinggalkan aku

Disaat ku mulai mengharapkanmu

Dan ku mohon maafkan aku

Aku menyesal telah membuatmu menangis

Dan biarkan memilih yang lain

Tapi jangan pernah kau dustai takdir mu

Pasti itu terbaik untuk mu

Janganlah lagi kau mengingatku kembali

Aku bukanlah untuk mu

**

Meski ku memohon dan meminta hatimu

Jangan pernah tinggalkan dirinya

untuk diriku

I don't know why but I love this song much!

:) .

How To Be A Romantic Date

One of the most important aspects of dating is to romance your prospective partner, especially on a first date! But, do it in your way, your style - be a gentleman!

Romance can be defined as 'The act of making your partner feels loved,' a few ideas below which you might accomplish while dating.

For men:

1. Always open the car door for her.
2. Make her feel incredibly special at every opportunity.
3. Send her a fancy invitation to a night out with you.
4. Whisk her away to somewhere special or sentimental one weekend.
5. Send her flowers and love notes regularly.
6. Make an effort to secretly find out something that she has always wanted to do and arrange for her to do it with you.
7. Pull out her chair for her at a restaurant.
8. Give her your jacket if she even so much as hints at being cold.
9. Always compliment her on her hair and clothing.
10. Send her a special thank you card after the date to let her know you had a great time and would like to do it again.
11. Leave a red rose on her car seat for her.

For women:

1. Tell him how good he looks.
2. When you look at him, smile warmly.
3. Let him know you really appreciate the effort he is making.
4. Surprise him by finding out everything you can about something that he is interested in.
5. Be extroverted and openly interested in what he is doing or saying.
6. Don't talk too much about yourself but find areas of common interest to talk about.
7. Send him a special thank you card after the date to let him know you had a great time and would like to do it again.
8. Leave a note on his car to let him know that you were thinking about him.
9. Wear something extra-special on a date just for him.
10. Buy two tickets to an event he is interested in and take him with you.
11. Make him look good when you are out in public together.

I hope it will gives you a good lesson and a benefit to you guys!