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29 June 2008

Who Loves You? - Part 1



Sometimes, I asking questions - Who are the people in my life who would be ready to ride the Intra Kota bus with me if my 'Nissan Fair Lady' is unserviceable, breaks down and has to send to workshop?


I got the answer, and I will say - my parents, my gf , who always with me when my 'Nissan Fair Lady' is serviceable and of course they would be ready to ride the bus with me. kan?

And, I really really hope and I mean it!

Other than that is my best friend, but how do I know who they are? (I got so many best friend meh!)
What are their characteristics? Do I even have any of them with me? But, I trust in friendship. I believe all my best friend also would be ready to ride the bus with me as long as I being a nice person, a nice friend to them. How I want to do it?

For me, as I hope other person can make me feel comfortable with them, I'll do the same to make them feel comfortable too. Be frank even it hards. Enuff! Simple!


'true friend bring out the best to each other.'


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It is hard to 'puaskan hati semua orang', but just do it! Try to do the best.

How about you, my friends? :)

Respect = Give + Take?



That day I and my gal went to have our meal at KFC, I ordered one dinner plate for both of us, one hot coffee, one coke with float and fries. What I want to share here is, next to our table there are a sibling of 3 boys. Their father ( perhaps!) brought a dinner plate to them consist of 3 pieces of fried chicken. It so yummy, rite?


But the most important thing here is we realized something sweet about them when we heard they discussed how to divide the fried chicken among them.

And those words touched me and my gal when the youngest brother said;

" ... kau ambil yang besar lah sebab kau besar, aku ambil yang kecik...", he said to his eldest brother.

Amazing! While we ponder and think about the situation, it might be make us remembered to our past - when we are a children. I think we will 'berebut-rebut' to have a biggest piece of the fried chicken. And I thought this is the perfect time to reflect on this situation. We saw that he (the youngest brother) took only a chicken wing.

My gal asked me, "how their family teach them to be so sweet like that?,"

And I smiled as I heard the question about it. What I can said is I am very grateful that ALLAH showed us the situation which made us renung-renungkan.

I have to say, it was a great feeling.

Absolutely!

Let us asked ourselves - have we nurtured ourselves to be nice to our siblings? or, have we nurtured our children to be nice among their siblings?

In fact, I don't know what to say about that. :)
For me, it has now given me something great that I have never thought of! A reward from my Lord, the Al Mighty!

Once again, it is an interesting situation. Don't you think?


And, I remember a phrase once said;

'It is not how good you are, but how good you wanna be.'


23 June 2008

Kissing & Your Horoscope - What Do They Mean?



Find yours below and see if you agree...


Aries

Your kisses are quick and passionate fits of lustful pleasure that are there and then gone.

Taurus

Your kisses linger; they are deliberate, heartfelt and they can go on and on and on...

Gemini

Your kisses are interrupted by spasms of giggles, smiles and funny observations.

Cancer

Your kisses are warm and tender, and you never want to let them go.

Leo

Your kisses are wild and uninhibited, biting and clawing; you expect applause for your performance.

Virgo

Your kisses are so subtle and tidy, your lover only notices them once you've finished.

Libra

You're too busy worrying about your breath to really get into your kisses.

Scorpio

You skip the kiss and get to straight to ... whatever comes next for you.

Sagittarius

Your kisses are surprising, spontaneous affairs that leave the kissed wanting more.

Capricorn

Your kisses are intense moments of sublime relief from the stress of your day.

Aquarius

Your kisses are wet and messy, and you tend to keep your eyes open.

Pisces

Your kisses are starry-eyed, amorous and long-lasting.


An Idiots Guide to the Art of Lip Locking


When it reaches to the end of your date, and want to say goodbye, but not just with words from your mouth….. with your lips, maybe!

What should you do?

1. Don't Panic.

Control your emotions and yourself too. Kissing is emotional enough without throwing in any paranoia over how well you flossed. Just relax and be yourself.

2. Bite Your Tongue.

French kissing may be exciting, but tonsil hockey may not be what your partner had in mind. Remember that this kiss is NOT about you, it's about THEM. You should never kiss someone for your own pleasure, but for theirs. Find out whether they like tongue action before you ever kiss. Ermm...It will be the sweetest thing if you did it well!

3. Keep It Simple Stupid.

It's just a kiss, not more than that. Don't get so emotionally wound up about it that you become obsessive. Don't try to make it complicated, just be yourself, and enjoy it for what it is.

4. Ask.

That's right, ask. Remember that girl is someone's daughter, that boy is someone's son. Ask them for permission before you kiss them. It shows you respect their opinions, and you won't end up with that embarrassing "oops... did i just kiss you" feeling. You might get that "No I will NOT kiss you" response, but at least you won't get a punch in the nose.

5. Be Considerate.

If you're in front of fifty other people, remember that they don't all want to see you kiss. They may tell you to "get a room", but what they mean is, "I don't want to see you suck face. It makes me uncomfortable." While public displays of affection are acceptable in our culture, there are limits to what those around you can stomach.


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22 June 2008

Fw: Fw: MALAYSIAN'S BOLEH 2) Our children condemned to a barren future






Again, I received a forwarded 'outcry' e-mail from a friend. Check it out!


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Our children condemned to a barren future

CL | Jun 18, 08 4:42pm

Our children face a bleak future. This is the result of the complacency and ‘short-termism’ by our country’s leadership, whether past or present. We have squandered away precious resources and time by embarking on grandiose projects one after another, focusing narrowly on expensive infrastructures and monuments while consistently neglecting the one resource that can maintain Malaysia’s place in the global economy – our human capital.

From our primary schools to public universities, standards have been falling for years. Our PM has been busy crisscrossing the country officially launching economic corridors here and there. Perhaps the PM should be visiting schools and universities to see how well our younger generations will be able to cope when they enter the workforce.

The multi-billion dollar super-corridors are basically just hardware. What good is it to have IT hubs, biotechnology facilities; R&D centres when we cannot have competent and qualified professionals to work in them?

Education policies aren’t ‘sexy’. A comprehensive, well-thought out and laboriously implemented education blueprint might take years - even decades - before its results become apparent. But our government tends to go for the quick-fix, short cut solutions.

It revels in ‘instant successes’ that take little effort. Just throw the money, loads of money at the problem and you will get a fast solution. Want a Malaysian in space? Why, just hold a Malaysian Idol-like Contest, spend millions to buy a ticket from the Russians, and voila!, after a couple of months, you have your very own Malaysian ‘Angkasawan’.

Why bother spending the same millions (and years) in developing a space programme that actually sends qualified Malaysians into space?

National unity failing? No problem! Cobble some training camps together, supply some crisp new uniforms, install some vigorous physical training programmes, and presto!, after three months, our ‘National Servicemen and women’ will go back to their daily routine fully immersed with the spirit of muhibbah.

It is then not surprising that when it comes to our education policies, our government is guilty of not having a consistent, coherent and well-executed plan. The education portfolio is often seen as a stepping stone to a higher office.

As a result, every education minister that comes in tends to want to stamp his mark by introducing new ideas, which are then hastily implemented, often discarding the previous’ structure, both good and bad.

Substance does not matter here – what matters is we have something ‘new’. A case in point – we are still debating whether teaching science and mathematics in English is a viable idea.

The 2007 World Bank report reaffirms the poor standards of our public universities. Our primary and secondary schools can’t be that much better off. The report went on to say that Malaysia would lose its competitive edge if it fails to produce a world-class education system to propel the country into an innovative economy.

Already, Malaysia’s strength in manufacturing is being quickly eroded by countries such as China which has a vast supply of labour gaining in sophistication. In the services sector too, other developing countries have been furiously pouring in billions to upgrade their knowledge-based economies, and at the same time engaging the best brains to develop their future scientists.

So where does that leave us? Not only has Malaysia failed to carve out a niche to replace its waning dominance in manufacturing and to an extent the services sectors, our future generations of local graduates are ill-equipped with the creativity and knowledge needed to compete with the rest of the world.

Because our manufacturing and services sectors have no clear advantage over other countries, this can only mean our graduates will end up with jobs that are easily replaceable whether here or in other countries.

This in turn means the jobs available to our less-than-competent graduates will most likely offer remuneration that reflects its ‘commoditised’ nature.

Parents of young children have not much choice. Most of those who can afford it will likely enroll their kids in private schools. Many of the young professionals today will no doubt do whatever they can to send their offspring to foreign universities in order to secure a globally-recognised education that will give them that extra edge in getting good-paying jobs.

And where will these jobs come from? At this rate, no one will be putting their money on Malaysia. So we have a vicious circle – the Malaysian economy is stuck in the 20th century because our education system cannot produce sufficient scientists, engineers and financial wizards who can transform it into a knowledge-based economy.

Those with the knowledge will most likely offer their services to other countries because they cannnot find employment back home. In the meantime, our neighbours have leapfrogged over us economically with our best brains contributing to their advancement.

How about parents who have no choice but to send their children to government schools? They can only pray for a miracle that somehow, the standard of teaching improves; that the government appoints school administrators based on competence and not political obedience; that the entire education system is predicated on merit; that deserving students are given the means and support all the way from primary school to university to pursue their dreams.

If the government continues in its slumber and on its fixation on billion-dollar infrastructures, ignoring the crucial need to revamp our education system now, our children will suffer the consequences of low-paying jobs in a less-than-competitive economy in the future.

Coming at a time when we are running out of oil and high inflation looking to be a permanent fixture, our next generations will be the ones to bear the cost of our profligacy and myopic ways.

Low-paying jobs in a less than dynamic economy; no more oil; high fuel and food prices – aren’t we condemning our next generations to a lifetime of meaningless slogging, struggling to earn just enough to cover their bills with no light at the end of the tunnel?


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Subject: RE: MALAYSIAN'S BOLEH

Can A Family Man With Salary RM3,000 Survive In Malaysia ...!

Let's do some simple calculations here.

In Malaysia , the average family income is
RM3,000 /month
(where father works, mother doesn't).

I understand there are many families whose monthly income does not reach
RM3,000,but, to make things simple, let's take RM3,000 as the figure. Ok lah, right?

Okay, let's start rolling with a family which has Papa, Mama, 1 daughter and 1 son. Ngam-ngam ....

Calculation starts...


Electricity and water bill:
RM100

(No air-con, No home theatre, No water heater ... ok?)


Phone bill ( Telekom):
RM100

(Internet streamxy RM68 + land line RM25 = RM93, round-up to RM100 la)


Meals for a happy family:
RM775

(3 meals on RM25/day 4 persons. Forget about makan in restaurant ya)


Papa makan / teh-tarik during working hrs:
RM155

(RM5/day, RM5 ... can eat what?)


Car repayment:
RM400

(A proton saga aeroback, 7 yrs repayment)


Petrol (living in city, traffic-jam) :
RM300

(go to work, bring son to school, only can afford one car running. NO YET CONSIDER PETROL INCREASE 40.8%)


Insurance:
RM650

(Kids, wife and self. Forget about insurance la..no money to pay, lets drop it)


House repayment:
RM750

(low cost housing repayment for 30 yrs, retired still have to work to pay!)


Tuition:
RM80

(got that cheap meh? i don't think so)


Older children pocket money @ school:
RM20

(RM1/day, eat bread?)


School fees:
RM30

(enough ah?)


School books and etc:
RM100

(always got extra to pay in school)


Younger children milk powder:
RM50

(cannot have the DHA, BHA, PHA one, expensive)


Miscellaneous:
RM100

(shampoo, rice, sauce, toilet paper, saman, etc)

Oh wait!!! I have to stop here, so...


No Astro,
no movie @ cinema,
no DVD,
no CD,
no toys
no computer,
no KFC, no McDonald,
no insurance
no jalan-jalan makan angin (vacation)
no chit chat on phone with grandparents, and etc...
nothing breaks down for repair


Let's use a calculator to total up... WALAO EH! #@%**#!
RM2,960 already...

EPF belum potong, income tax lagi........ oledi RM2,960 ....

How to survive lah tuan-tuan dan puan-puan sekalian ???

Our Deputy Prime Minister asked us to change lifestyle?

How to change? Don't eat? Don't work? Don't send children to school and study?
Besides that, I believe in Malaysia population, there are millions of rakyat Malaysia which still don't earn RM3,000/month! !!

What is this? Inilah Malaysia Boleh...Sorry... it should be Malaysians Boleh, because we're still alive and kicking!!

Our politicians must be mad!!!!

Please forward and comment boleh or tak boleh. No wonder so many Ah Long around lah....

A Birthday Wish for a Best Friend - Happy Birthday My Dearest Friend


Today is 22nd June, a very special day to one of my best friend i ever had. And, alhamdulillah, after 10 years i have knew this friend, today she is a mother of 2 children, a wife but most of all, she is still a wonderful, loving and thoughtful friend.


Happy Birthday JAD!


No Cake, No Present, No Chocolate for this year! :)


I wished you will success in everything!


Here is a special wish for you;

Today it is your birthday,
Full of wonders for you to share,
As no one knows what the day will bring.
But greetings coming your way,
True feelings from those who care,
As one by one to you we begin to sing.

A day for you to treasure,
as it comes but once a year,
Each moment filled with feeling warm and true.
Let's hope the day brings pleasure,
And fills your heart with cheer,
With warm and tender feelings just for you.

So today it is your birthday,
And to you I simply say,
This day is blessed with only you in mind.
I hope this day is happy,
And shared in such a way,
That warm and tender feelings are all you find.


and, this one too - a beautiful, warm and heartfelt message for your birthday;

Muddy waters, sunny days
Countless smiles, endless ways
Shared our secrets and our fears
Shared our joys and many tears
Times we thought our life would end
It meant so much to have you, friend
Never judging, always knowing
How I felt as we were growing
Many years have come and past
Friends like us were made to last
Between us may lie many miles
But they can’t take away our smiles
So sing a song and cut the cake
Here’s my cyber hug to take
Although I am not there it’s true
My heart has traveled there to you
I send to you this birthday cheer
To celebrate another year
May all that’s good come your way
Enjoy your very special day



Thank you for all the past we had and the current we are in, now!